I usually tell my T that I missed him...and many times, he responds saying that he missed me too! I don't recall ever talking in depth about it, but he is well aware of the fact that I hate feeling attached and dependent. It ebbs and flows though, of course, depending on what's going on in my life at the time or what work we've done in therapy.

He came to my show last Friday - and both sessions for this week (group and individual) were canceled cuz he took the week off for Thanksgiving...so I won't see him til next Tuesday at group. I really felt awful earlier this week about it, because I was longing to get his feedback about the show and to continue to feel the "show high"....but that feeling passed after I started judging myself and criticizing myself about it....and now I'm pretty much ok with the fact that I haven't seen him this week. Defense mechanisms at its finest! *shrug*