No, actually, my breasts are quite large, but they're sensitive, too. Especially around my time of the month. Thanks for the information, though. I think the next time (if there's one) a guy wants to touch my nipples and breasts, I'll feel more comfortable to speak up.
And yeah, I get that by saying no, it implies yes. It's why, in other parts of my life, I will tell some people soon after I meet them personal things about me, so they won't assume I agree with them if I don't; I hate for people to be silent or go, "Mmm-hmmm," to something I say, as if they agree, then go behind my back to talk about me because they disagree. But I've found people don't like that I'm so open, so I have become less open (again--I was very shy when I was young). But the thing with guys is, I believe, from the messages girls are given from society, that you should want to please a man, take care of him. I grew up believing feminist ideals (and I still do), that a woman doesn't need a man, and vice-versa, to be a complete person. There's nothing wrong with wanting a relationship, but feeling you need a specific type of relationship to be complete is false. You can complete yourself.
Ok, rant done. :P As for talking to my therapist, we don't talk about sex. He just asks how I am and I answer, then we talk about meds and he writes out my prescriptions and I leave. Physically, sex is very painful for me; however, I haven't had sex in about 13 years. My boyfriend is no longer interested, and he was the first to stop the sex. During that time, my OCD got worse, and I wouldn't have been comfortable having sex after that. I'm much better now, although I still might feel "dirty" having sex (and not dirty in the fun way). Anyway, none of my gynecologists or other doctors have found a cause for my pain. Well, they have, but it's been everything from yeast infections (which were cleared up, but I still had pain with intercourse) to being misshapen or "tiny" (other docs said I was normal), and other things that still haven't resolved the issue.
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