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Old Nov 23, 2012, 05:18 AM
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Originally Posted by feralkittymom View Post
It is astoundingly difficult to embrace and respect what is felt as painful and hated, but I believe the greatest healing comes when we do just that. Therapy for me was the felt experience of receiving such an embrace, until I could internalize it for myself. It's an honoring of self and other.
That's *exactly* what I'm talking about. Honoring what happened to me as not pathological per se, but as what made me who I am.

There are some things I do blazingly well, because I had to, but make no mistake, they are considerable assets in my life today.

It's me people, not an end product, it's me!

Therapist just did not get it. I think he had his mind on the holiday break. I was his last client of the day.

To be fair, I was also thinking "Okay, one last thing [the session] and I get a break".
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