I miss my T when she cancels (which is has only done once or twice in the 2 years I been going) but I wont tell her I miss her. I will usually just send a text back saying something along the lines of: "It's okay. I wont die because I can't have my appt". But that is part of the push/pull stuff. In other words its me trying to convince myself and her that I wont miss the appointment when it reality I do. lol