I agree, I don't think you can make her do anything. Actually trying to "make" or force her to do something may backfire on her. Her life has undoubtedly change, and will continue to change a lot. The best thing you can do is be supportive, listen, and if you can't find an answer help her look. It's ok not to have an answer. I imagine she must have a probation officer? you can go along with her if it's allowed and she would like the emotional support.

(((Liz)))) hugs for you too. This has got to be hard on you, and your family as well. It's adjustment for you all. Having a place like this for support for yourself is a good outlet for you as well. Keep us abreast, and ask questions, talk...whatever you need. hugs Lisa