my t puts up with way too much of my whinning in my opinion lol. I would be so sick of me if i was her. She goes away a lot on vacation. like at least once a month. I hav learned to cope while she is gone, but that doesn't make it any less hard. i feel like as time goes on, i get closer to her, so every time she leaves is harder for me. i let her know, and we always talk about it. she does her best to reassure me, and im so thankful that i hav a t that is willing to aknowledge my fears and worries and talk about them over and over until i feel better (if that ever happens). she has been nothing but supportive and I am so thankful