Good heavens ! You will be in the same position as your future sister in law soon! After you graduate, you'll be able to get married, and you'll have your dream career, you'll be happy, etc. What on earth is there to be jealous of?

You'll still be able to have kids in your career once things get rolling. Give yourself some time -- you're awfully young, my friend. PLEASE don't have children too young. Have some FUN first with your new husband because after children, the fun times END. You have to stay home and take care of the children, as money is much tighter!! You have plenty of time for children.

You are in a wonderful spot right now!! How I wish I had had the advantages you have had. I was never able to go to college and then start a great career.

So like I said -- you have the SAME things as your sister in law -- she's just further ahead in things because she's older than you. She's probably jealous of YOU because you don't have kids yet! LOl She wants to have FUN. God bless and please take care. Hugs, Lee