So... you clearly know how to give advice even though you are only 19 and when/if I develop a serious interest in BDSM, I will go back to your posts on the subject because I will have trust in your knowledge.

I opened the account on OkCupid on Thanksgiving, without expecting responses as people, I thought, were busy eating turkey with their families. I was wrong. I got a lot of instant responses.

Clearly with this kind of traffic on the least busy day of the year one does not need dating siteS in plural - one OkCupid will suffice... so thanks... you do know your stuff, for sure.