I signed up for OkCupid and have been there for a bit. I have yet to see it give me ANY matches that are women I'd be interested in even talking to. Quiver stinks in making matches and this, after I've answered over 500 questions there! But I don't think it's that OKCupid sucks so much as the dating site scene itself is just too unnatural. I think the best way is the one way I shy away from meeting women. That is through real life and even if online, just through everyday conversation. I think when you go on an online dating site it's just too forced. I think everyone there is trying way too hard to meet their match. Not that it can never work but that it's few and far between. Anyway just my take... I'm still on it but don't expect much from it anymore.