All the more reason to have moderators. You wouldn't believe the amount of sexual harassment and really horrible things users have said and/or done to each other there. Dating websites might be fun and exciting, but beneath the surface they're messy places!

It might not be a forum but that doesn't mean there aren't rules. Someone has to police the website. Don't worry, I can't browse people's inboxes, but if something is reported, it is sent to me, among many moderators to deal with. However, I also have to watch out for fake profiles, scams, and photos that don't adhere to the guidelines.

Ironic, isn't it, that the OKCupid developers find that I am trustworthy enough to be a moderator but no woman on the website that I have found finds me worthy enough to talk to.