Anitmatter, if you're so inclined, read the book: Relationship Managemente of the Borderline Patient . .. OUCH, some of it hurt so much and some if it meant so much to me. It was hard to read this book but it made me realize that I had TRUE responsibility for how I interacted with others. I'm not saying that it didn't hurt, but it made me realize that I had a more of a part in how things happened than I originally wanted to believe.
Take care,! Jaybird!