I decided to start a new approach to mental therapy. I will call it (naming my severely rotten moms) (I desire to aquaint myself in a relaxing atomsphere to each of them and personally ask them if I may adjust their "Volume, " "Treble," " Bass, "and" Balance "knobs, if you know what I mean, so that when I am under stress, they can work to my benefit, rather than against my benefit, which they almost always do) I can name about 100 of them and unfortunately they surface in knee jerk impulse fashion. So just to let you know I am all for growing and getting thru the "Bad Ma Cure" and whatever works for each of you may your higher power give you blessing, but I might add "I " have to make "excrutionating effort myself." For facing my "many dark faces within," that all are many facets of my own personal MOMMA. You gotta love her, but she aint that good all the time.!! Your friend, Razeljenny