I'm sensitive about English, but I don't judge a person on one common error, and I don't think proper English proves someone is a class act.

Frankly, I think you're just not playing it smart. But if you're going to do it...

Meeting in public is a good idea. Just don't agree to go to somewhere private afterward. I used to meet guys from personal ads I'd placed, with the rule that we meet in a public place. I hadn't anticipated how many expected me to go off with them to a motel room or some other place alone once we'd met and had lunch/dinner. Don't do that, it's downright foolish (and I didn't do that).

All these posts from you have me wondering if you're genuine and honestly, I think you have a lot going on. I can't even keep track of all the problems, concerns and questions you've posted. I can't quite get a picture of you and your situation. It's like you're all over the place. I can't remember if you've posted anywhere--do you have a pdoc?