hi nik, thanks for responding back. i think you already know the best solution. if dad is 1 hour from mom you can put your visit on hold. a way to graciously get out of it and true is you're not feeling well. this is true cause you're recovering from alcohol abuse. get it? 
it's a good sign you wanted to hear from others whay they would do. just take it one day at a time. so glad you're sober. we're always here for you.
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