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Originally Posted by continuosly blue
I guess you unconciously posted to where you really wanted it to go. You did'nt say how long you have been married. Not that it matters, I'm going on 40 yr's and still uncertain. My situation is similar in that " the spark " has long been gone. We married young and were just in an addiction and obsessive compulsive relationship.
Don't feel guilty for saying what you really feel. Some people NEVER get to know ,much less share,how they really feel.
Hang in there,
the best is yet to come. 
continuosly blue
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My husband and I have been married for 11 years and together for 14. I am 40 years old. I'm going to work on the marriage hoping that we can spark something? Hope it's not wishful thinking. I am doing this for my kids sake and hoping that it all works out. I do have a 'good egg' it's just the feelings aren't there. I'm hoping to foster something. Wish me luck!!! 
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