I know I care for others, and I do help out, when I can, and when I feel it won't be taken the wrong way. I was in the social work field some time ago, but I didn't get along with other health care providers, so my career ended abruptly. I'm a misfit, and I now accept that. I don't try and fit in any more. Life is lonely for me, but I do many things to advance my physical and spiritual self. I don't sit around and mope. Thanks for advice, and the hug; it actually made me feel warm