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Old Nov 25, 2012, 01:33 AM
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I hold things inside of myself too, so I can relate. Before my ex-hub and I married, he would sit and listen to me jabber for hours! However, he was interested in me.

Perhaps you could apologize for taking up so much of her time when you see her again? Simply state that time flew by and you didn't realize how much time you'd spent talking. You could also say that you really don't feel comfortable enough to talk about the issues you discussed with many people ~ and you're sorry if it was a bit too much for her.

Hopefully, she'd still like to be friends with you. Perhaps you could assure her that you'll be more careful in the future and let her know that she's always welcome to come to you when she needs to talk about something. Friendship is a 2-way street ~ assure her that you'll be there for her as well.
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