oh gosh... that's just exactly how I am darkeyes. Matter of fact, I was telling someone yesterday about that very thing. I am a warm person and people want to get close to me, but soon as they invite me to do something or the relationship seems to ask for more depth, I bail out. It's not that I don't ever do things with people. It's just highly uncomfortable and quite a stretch for me to make that step.

I'm so glad you relate to this. I feel so selfish sometimes because I can't seem to care about others enough to get past this. Do you ever feel selfish because of it?