For valentines day at church a couple w/ 4 kids led our lesson and meal to follow. The topic was how the church talks about sex. Like it is a sin, like it is dirty, or so horrible it's not something that should even be mentioned. We talked about how that changes our since of reality. This couple along w/ the preacher talked about how sex is sacred. It is the joining of two after marriage. It is a gift from God to create new life. It is a gift of connecting two people who love each other and will add to togetherness. It's not such a horrible thing.