MUE, I don't have any ill feelings towards you. I just hate conflict. Sometimes when I read threads like the one about the T regrets... I think it is a place to be able to put my feelings out there. I don't really think its a place for people to comment about them because they are feelings...

So when someone commented on it...I thought ughh.. and I just let it go...

When you don't let it go (irregardless of whether you are right or not), your comments get the same people involved all riled up. And that is what I meant when I said somethings we bring on ourselves. Sometimes its best to know when we can't handle a thread or certain posters and just leave. I will take my own advice and do the same in the future.