What do you mean you're "committed to a guy you're not in a relationship with." That doesn't even make sense. If you're not in a relationship with him how can you be committed to him? Forget him. Go on with your best friend whom you love, and be happy. What's the other guy going to do, kill you? I doubt it.

Unless you're living in another country where your parents arranged a marriage to another man for you -- that's different. Then, I don't know what to tell you. I guess I would PLEAD with my parents to get me out of it so I could be with the man that I loved.

I wish you the very best. Please take care & God bless. Hugs, Lee