Hi lonelybychoice,

I saw your post. I questioned that I am or one of the offenders that you are distressed by, since I have decided to confine my post to threads, Dear T and Roll Call, and mundane ones. They are two great threads. If these are the what use to be threads, as a new comer it would be helpful to know what PC protocol is for these threads. And when you say the threads were "hijacked" does that mean one should limit their post, not respond, etc? If that needs to happen I'm on board.

I have done two threads, both open to criticism - which I have to expect.
In one I asked one of the poster about not responding to a card, and then another poster accusing me of alterior motives, wanting "people" to praise me, when I only said that to "one" person. And, because asking one person she mentioned BDP behavior. I just don't get it, and open to explanations for what pertains to me.

I am glad people are speaking about not being safe on the forum, I am one of them. There has Been PM discussion about it since ive been here. That's why I try not to put people down for their views, and try to mostly "I" statements. Any response you or others on this couch I'm open to listening, and learning.