I feel unsafe here because it feels to me as if there a number of people who feel that their pain is the WORST ever. No one else could possibly be in as much pain as them. No one else has suffered as much, etc. That feels horrible to me. When they are expressing negative emotions about themselves even, it's always, EVERYONE hates ME. I am the WORST person EVER. I just have a lot of trouble dealing with that. And then when I express a fear or concern, I have gotten slammed (in my opinion). Once for wanting too much from my H for example. And yet these people on PC going on these borderline rants get huge amounts of attention and coddling. It's hugely triggering for me and I hate how it makes me feel about people on here and about myself, so I avoid it by not starting many threads.