Somewhere on her website or another site where she is listed, I read something my T wrote about her "going through grieving in her own life" so I figured it was all right to ask her about it. She told me that her parents had passed away, one of them when she was a child, and also a sibling. I think it would be inappropriate to directly ask a T "what are your issues", though.

When we started doing EMDR and I wanted to do it about accidents in K, T shared that she also did EMDR on the same subject. As far as her current concerns, unless she mentions them, they are off-limits to me.