I'm looking for body language 101. Male therapist - female client . I've had bad experiences before, not with therapist but men in general where they've crossed boundaries. I'm not good at reading b.l.. I'm a fidgety person so I'm constantly moving around , play with me hair , playing with rings and necklace..I never quite know what to do with my hands .I want to figure out if my own body language isnt being misunderstood.
I have a lot of sexual abuse issues so talk about sex naturally comes up. The thing that makes me wonder is that sometimes he sits with legs spread., that isn't his normal way of sitting. It just feels odd. . I'm not accusing him of anything, it just freaks me out alittle.
Any ideas???