It is completely normal. I cannot believe I am even talking about this. I know this is not normal conversation stuff. But any touching in the way you are speaking is not wrong. It serves a very educational purpose. It helps you become more familiar w/ your body and what you like so one day when you share the gift of you w/ someone special you have a general idea what is happening to you. It is so helpful to learn to control our urges and give in to our urges. Reguardless of weather you are male or female it is ok to be doing it. (touching) It's part of life. If they talk about it on TV and on movies then it must be part of acceptable life.