Regarding discussion about feeling safe: I don't feel safe writing about my own issues, and regret doing so in the past (though I'm not obsessing about it - there's a lot of posts on PC, and mine drown in the sea of words). I'm not comfortable writing about why that is, but it is (obviously) my own problem, and I don't expect or want anybody to modify their behaviour to suit my foreign notions better. I am reluctant to post about others' issues because apparently some people bring PC posts and threads to their Ts - which is their right to do, and more power to them if it helps them. Everything we post is public and people are free do whatever they want with it. But the only way to stay safe is to stay silent, online just as in outside-therapy RL.

The reason I'm still here is that I care very much about some of the people here and don't want to lose touch.