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Originally Posted by Miswimmy1
I'm not asking her to put me before her health. That's not what I'm saying at all. I'm sry if you misunderstood. I am just confused as to why she is coming down so hard right now. It's because I care about her health that I'm making a big deal out of this. I want it so that I WONT be in crisis while she is gone. So that she CAN think only about her health.
I don't know why you are so angry... And forgive me if I am misinterpreting your post.
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Not angry ... Just flabbergasted ... !!! ... Perhaps I am the one who's misunderstanding and misinterpreting here ...
She might be coming down hard because she knows she's not gonna be able to be there for you and wants to make sure you understand this and what it is you must do for yourself while she's unavailable.
Have you asked her for a back up therapist you can contact if needed ... Or a support group for OCD ... Or a 24/7 hotline number to call just in case ... ??? ... I'm sure she will have some alternate resources available while she's gone ... Show her you're ready to face your demons while she's away by having some back-up plans in place ... !!!
That will provide the greatest peace of mind for both of you ... The added bonus is, that she'll have given you the alternative resources and you'll still feel a connection to her ... Even while she's unavailable.
Apologies the other post seemed so angry and attacking ... That wasn't my intention ... !!!
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Pfrog!