Are you sitting face to face? I would feel uncomfortable. You are trying to open your soul and it might be too much...in your face so to speak. Is there a table between you? I personally would like a few boundaries. He might be trying to portrait a feeling of openness but if you had that you probably wouldn't even be there. I would feel more comfortable sitting perpendicular...not sure if thats the right word, and have a desk between us. I would feel too vulnerable any other way and would have a hard time opening up.