I used to argue like this with my T every session. Her response to that was to discuss the whole interaction in EXCRUCIATING detail, every time. Excruciating, I tell you. Every last atom of the conversation was gone over, it was such a waste of sessions. And it seemed like she was trying to use semantics to get out of being in the wrong (the times I was angry at her, that is). I can't be bothered wasting sessions on that BS anymore so now I just kinda go "ok whatever" and drop it haha... and swear at her in my mind :P