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Old Nov 26, 2012, 01:04 PM
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Originally Posted by Jenn1fer82 View Post
Is it normal of females wanting to feel safe when we're in a relationship?
Wanting to feel safe, secure, protective, accepted and love is something I've always searched for in a partner. To feel safe an protective is very important to me sometimes its something I cherish more than love. Could that need to feel safe stem from my abusive background?
I think this is normal, regardless of background.

I have a huge need in my relationship to FEEL loved, safe, secure and accepted. I have actually been stuggling with this lately, as I haven't been feeling loved and safe in my current relationship. So yes, I think it is normal.
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