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Old Sep 06, 2006, 09:36 PM
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Hi Simon,
I think it's normal to be curious and think about having sex with your gender. I don't think it's because you were abused. I could be wrong though. I don't know.
I was abused by a male and have fantasized about being with a female but I really don't think the two are related in any way except when I think of how hard it is for me to trust men but I'm going in the opposite direction-to the opposite gender in my case, if it is in any way related to sexual abuse.
I'm sure "normal" people who've never been sexually abused think about and have fantasized about having sex with the same gender who aren't gay.
I don't think you have anything to worry about.
If it really bothers you, do you have a counsler or therapist to talk to about it?
(((((Simon))))))

Rhapsody, very interesting article. Thanks!