I cannot send someone my life savings - I am in debt. So, in that regard, I am perfectly safe.

I took it to RL yesterday and went on a coffee date and then roamed art and antique stores with a lovely East Indian guy, but no sparks. Now I need to tell him that, and I feel sorry for him (he already expressed interest in seeing me again). But I know I have to be honest and upfront; I do not want to disappear on him. I actually want to propose that we become friends and play badminton together, just nothing romantic - does that round reasonable? He is not a creep - he is actually in the same profession as I am and from his conversation it is clear that he is not lying (the right terminology and stuff) about it.