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Originally Posted by Leed
I remember feeling the EXACT same way, sweetie. I too was a virgin when I got married, and I was scared to death. I was so naive - I'd never seen a man naked! I didn't have any brothers either. 
Unfortunately my new husband was NOt a virgin, so he wasn't at "patient" as I would have liked him to be. LOL It was "ok" but not quite what I had hoped. LOL
Just make sure your new husband is very slow and patient with you, and you'll be just fine. It will be a great, loving experience that shows each other how much you love one another. You are "as one." So don't worry -- it will come naturally my friend. I promise. God bless you and please take care. Hugs, Lee  |
Yeah I'm in about the same situation as far as my own ignorance goes. :P I don't even masturbate, which according to my female friends is what a NORMAL person does, but.... I dunno. I just don't really care all that much. Though also I deal with depression, so my sex drive tends to be pretty low anyway.
My boyfriend is a virgin, but through a couple of our early years together he struggled with porn addiction (though he's been clean for at least two years now) . And now he's the one telling me that he'd rather marry me and have a celibate marriage than marry someone else. :P So i don't know exactly WHAT his expectations are. He's changed so much.
Thank you.