I was extremely hurt by my last guy of 11 years too who also put me through it and returned to his x .. I shook my head it all for a long time in disbelief like really ?

I used to think he would run off, meet this great gal and live happier ever after so to speak .. then one day someone shared a similar experience with me .. She said she was afraid her guy would meet an honest, caring, fuuny, committed, special partner who truly cared about him .. She said she realised she was afraid he would meet her .. lol might sound funny but it makes sense actually .. I too was afraid he would meet someone like me, someone who Truly cared about him, but if he truly wanted that someone, he had me first .. he chose to carry on in his compulsive behaviors ..

I doubt the two of them will have a wonderful marriage .. he's Already cheating and they just met .. I love the magnet that says if you carry your old bricks into a new relationship, you will build the same house .. he's expecting a new result with this girl .. the easy way out rather than deal with what's real .. I doubt they will last long; he's already proved he can't be honest and any honest relationship Must have trust .. if it doesn't have that it will not have a solid foundation and it will bare no fruit so to speak ..

We are Both lucky we didn't marry the jerks ..