I was like that my self.. no.. wait.. that was me!.. its so hard to raise your hand when you know other ppl are waiting to pick on you.. or you fears are there to tell you it will happen.. i had a really ruff time in school and i in the end got into a smaller school that could focus more on me which is what i really needed.. i was also with other kids like me which really helped alot.. i learned more and more after that.. about school and about me.. i hope things work out for you.. what grade are you in darlin?