It's like getting a dental work at the dentist office. It is the impending since of doom that is worse then the procedure itself. Honeymoon night is much the same way. Sure it's all good fun but knowing what is coming makes it tough. Me and my H did that first thing so it would be over and we could proceed to enjoy ourselves w/ the rest of the honeymoon.
It was not even our first time w/ ea other but it was still awkward.