In my opinion relationships do come with some comprimise from both people. Both people ivolved do need to factor each other in.

Now.. What are your dreams? And no you should not just settle to meet his wants and ignore your own. Both peoples needs and wants need to be met. Wants can be altered a bit so both people get some of what they want. Some of our needs we can meet ourselves. Unfortunatly I don't think think a healthy relationship is only about considering one person tho. I realize he has worked hard to get where he is, but did he not consider this stuff before getting in a relationship? There must be a way to have you both feeling fulfilled.

Will he be there to support and encourage your dreams as well?