Hi Deb, I don't blame you a bit for what you are doing. I agree with your PDoc, it's probably making you worse right now. Your story is compelling and if I were in my old profession I probably would take it on and get the information and find the people who would be best to look at prosecution.

That said, I don't know your state. I live in a tiny state and I would call the Attorney General's office and ask for a face to face with what you have so far. You at the least have Medicare fraud and that should be something the state would be interested in.

I would also call a congressman and get them to start looking into it for you.

The thing is, this has the potential to make you so ill. DELEGATE! Get the right people involved to help. Sounds like you may be little but packed with punch so go for it.

The hospital did wrong, big time, contact professional licensing on the social worker who gave out info on your mom.

Ask to sit with your State's attorney for a little face to face. Here my local guy is my friend's spouse. Unfortunately not in the county that procsecuted my spouse but....

If you are legally disabled there may be additional groups to help with this. I encourage you to delegate all that you can as I think I know you well enough to say you will be digging up a can of worms that will have too high of a personal cost to you. Your health is most important. I would look too for groups that advocate for people with disabilities. Good luck.