smiling musical soul
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Nov 27, 2012 at 03:29 AM
I think it depends on the person. For me yes it is a basic need. My husband and I went from 4-10 times a day to well right now it's been 2 weeks and nada. I truly resent him and if we get divorced this will be why. I got married because he could keep up. First few years fine and now
It is affecting my mood, my appetite, my self image and pretty much my life as a whole. He thinks telling me he loves me and wants to snuggle and hold hands should make up for it. What's the point in snuggling and putting up with being touched if you aren't going to get the good stuff?
I know his psych meds have changed and I should be patient as should your BF but there's only so much frustration a person can deal with before they snap and do something stupid. At least he told you and tried to open communication about what was happening instead of sitting on his feelings and letting resentment grow for you. Good luck to you guys.
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