I wish you the best. I didn't know untill reading this thread this morning (been married for 18 years) that you don't have to have sex sex on your honeymoon night. I cried on our honeymoon. We did it and I was sure that was all we could resume our romantic honeymoon. My H wanted to do it again a few hours later. "WHAT" was exactly what I was thinking.

Oral is just not something I'm into. Horrible gag reflex, tiny mouth, week stomach I just have a hard time doing that. I would have been MORTIFIED if my H suggested that on our honeymoon. OMG it's bad enough to have someone down there missing around but w/ there mouth AAAHHHHH.

After a little while of patience and practice sex became normal. I had been w/ 2 people before my H and he's been w/ one. So we didn't have a wealth of experience. I wish I had a better answer for you. But this is an area where I can't be of much help. I can only relate. For me just having someone who can relate means alot.