Hi sc,
I use to get that way too and I know how humiliating it can be.
I then realized some people I knew were the same way and when they turned red-I didn't think they were stupid or anything, I thought it was kind of sweet and charming.
So, I figured if I felt that way about other people blushing then maybe people thought the same thing about me when I blushed. It's not really a bad thing. Once I started to feel okay with it-it didn't seem to happen as much.
The more self conscience you are about it-the more it's going to happen. I think the best thing to do is to try to make peace with it and accept that it's apart of your charm. ((((((SC)))))))