I understand you not wanting to hear about God. In my own experience, I've had a lot of Christians tell me over the years that, in order to get better, I had to:
go to church more
pray more
learn how to pray correctly
read my Bible more and memorize more scripture
give more money to the church

forgive my abusive husband for beating me every night (and day)
walk around quoting scripture
never admit to anything bad or wrong, because that could make God upset
never talk to anyone who wasn't a Christian
always smile no matter what
just have more faith, etc.