Can you have the court order psychological testing on her to help you determine if there is something wrong? It would be better to determine now & treat than just letting it slip through the crack & have her only handled by the court system.

I know that some kids if they sense that their family isn't in a good place like it sounds like your marriage still isn't back to being a good stable home life (the relationship between you & your wife)....kids can sense those kinds of things & then act out because of it......that's why it's important to determine if there is some kind of psychological issue she's dealing with or not.

When things don't come together like they aren't you know there is some other underlying issue that exists......I definitely wish you the best with this....know how difficult it is to deal with when it's our kids who are seeming to be rebellious even if it's not what they are really doing.