((((button)))) i really agree with the recommendations for you to stay in therapy; whether it's with this T or with someone else ... it really does sound like you could use the support and help; and that digging deeper post sounded just what was needed; you don't want to eat chocolate if it will kill you right? so this is a way of learning not to do that ... if you are concerned about T's boundaries and self disclosure please bring that up with T rather than solve the problem by leaving therapy instead