well now... you are fixing it, Granite. I wish you could see the difference we see between where you were, even a year ago, and where you are now; it is really a great distance.

T1 used to remind me that it took me 55 yrs to get tied into the knots I brought into her office; and that I couldn't expect to untie them all right away. You have shown yourself brave and determined; this is going to take you far. You are healing - and growing !