Three months is truly a long time. That time-line triggers me b/c I constantly worry my T will become pregnant. Whatever reason T leaves for so long shouldn't concern us as cients, but it does anyway. I just saw my T after a monthlong break and I find it hard to believe T still exists, in real life and after all that anxiety!

I'm sorry you feel upset. Perhaps you can write your T an actual letter whenever you feel like talking to T. Seal them in envelopes, stack 'em up and take the bundle to your reunion. Your T could open them and read them and you could discuss. This helps pinpoint individual feelings for me, rather than the general "I MISS T!". This works for me.