Lately with in the last year or so, my daughter when she feels like someone is saying something negative to her or about her family or someone says something she doesn't like or agree with, she gets furious. I mean to the point of screaming, shaking, red in the face, hyperventilating and then says things that are not true, unrealistic or inappropriate. She is 31 years old and a mother of 2...a 1 year old and an almost 3 year old. Her husband had been deployed most of their 5 year marriage. They are now living together. He has been and seen a lot and is kind of unemotional towards her. She has always been needy as far and getting comfort and reassurance from her family memebers. I know she has a problem with shopping. She is buying stuff online/stores all the time. It used to be for herself, now she buys for the kids constantly! I don't know what to do to help her. She doesn't know why she gets so angry. It is causing a lot of extended family/family issues. Please anyone, do you know what is wrong with her? Desparate mother