Where does your daughter live? If it is not too far for her to drive I strongly encourage her and her husband to go to the closest VA hospital. They have numerous programs for veterans as well as their families to help with adjusting to returning home from the Gulf and being families again. They should have an
OEF/OIF program that can help. They do good work. If it is too far to go, at least give them a call. They may have a community based clinic nearby.