There are 3 people living at my house, myself, my husband and my sister. My husband travels for work through the week and is home on the weekends. My sister works. I am on disability. It's very frustrating to me to clean up the kitchen or bathroom or front room, etc., then to have it completely trashed as soon as my sister gets home and as soon as my husband gets home. I really try to keep up but I have more bad days than good. I smply don't know how to deal with this. I completely understand about making lists. How do you overcome frustration with having a clean house and having a really bad day? Thanks for starting this thread. I just need to have a housekeeper to come in to do the big jobs I think.